Life...so far(so good)....

I am not trying to put together an analysis of how well or how bad my life has fared from past X number of years. Its just a inference from my experiences which actually taught me that its not the life that fucks up…it is your inability to handle its unpredictable dynamism.
 My all time favorite friend, philosopher and guide always tells me never forget the temporariness of any situation based feeling…it passes as soon as the situation ends. And no situation in this world is eternal and that’s the beauty of it. But we tend to forget this with indulgence in the overwhelming happiness and excitement inconsiderate of the change that might follow. We often receive it as a blow and take all the time in the world to get over it without realizing that in the process we lost some pretty important time of our life. So don’t ever base your happiness on any situation, person or thing because situation will change and people or things are all temporary. You need to have a more steady basis of your happiness. You can choose it to be your attitude or outlook. Your attitude towards situation, people or things. Now few of you must already have this attitude and few of them might not even be aware of being in possession but for those who feel that they are able to relate to even a slightest bit to the hard reception and getting over part of this piece might want to take this advice seriously.
All of it might sound quite theoretical, impractical or impossible to most of you until you actually go through an experience like this and waste some time only to realize what a big loser you have been either ways. I am just sparing you by telling you what you can learn from my mistakes. This might sound like a short cut and one of you can actually say that there are no shortcuts in life. But I say you might be able to take this one if you start changing your attitude from now, if you start getting prepared for it even before it arrives:)